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When the boys began playing sports…my life changed My competitive gene came back…the fire I had as a kid was re-lit I noticed something immediately at practices and games Dads were disengaged and off in another world Most were out of shape, out of touch and face down in their phones Their kids on the other hand were training, playing, competing and hoping Dad didn’t miss a play I despised it, in fact it brought me back to a very dark place I remembered looking at the stands and seeing nobody or just my mom I remember the feeling of...

Mornings Like This. Some days I wake up and feel at peace. At peace with my life and who I am. Not dwelling on any of my past shit. And completely thankful for my current state of being. Mornings like this, the coffee hits different and so does the prayer. The birds are quiet and the roads aren’t busy just yet. The sun is creeping but seems a little slow today…and I’m fine with that. More time to journal, more time to stretch and prepare for todays challenges. I used to take these morning for granted. I don’t know how...

The times I forgot.   To say thank you for the little things The ability to use my hands to earn a living Designing, Painting, Lifting, Hammering My legs to kneel and work, run and train, squat to lift My back to carry my kids, equipment and tools My feet to balance for all those things For a clear mind to continue learning into my 50’s after some very dark times A heart strong enough to keep me pushing everyday but more importantly to love and feel loved  Eyes to see there is so much more to life if I...

Doors.-You ever been an entrepreneur who’s “thing” has slowed down?-Contemplated quitting didn’t you?-Maybe skipped a few meals waiting for another door to open huh?-I used to do that too…I was stupid.-See, I took a slow down as a sign I failed at what I was doing…-Now, when a slow down hits…I knock on doors…-To who you might ask?-To any of my fellow entrepreneur friends who may need an extra hand until mine picks back up-I help them, they help me keep the lights on, pay the bills and feed the kids-Too many of us are prideful-Often say we’ll do whatever...

I’m Proud of you.   Ever thought about all the things that should’ve destroyed you and didn’t?   Have you ever wished that the younger you and the you now could sit and have a conversation?   Take a minute and think; what do you think that conversation would be like?   Today, that conversation happened in my head as I was leaving a job.   And to be quite honest, I got a little emotional.   Because the conversation started out with a simple, “I’m proud of you”.   I’m proud that you never gave up.   I’m proud...