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The times I forgot.   To say thank you for the little things The ability to use my hands to earn a living Designing, Painting, Lifting, Hammering My legs to kneel and work, run and train, squat to lift My back to carry my kids, equipment and tools My feet to balance for all those things For a clear mind to continue learning into my 50’s after some very dark times A heart strong enough to keep me pushing everyday but more importantly to love and feel loved  Eyes to see there is so much more to life if I...

Doors.-You ever been an entrepreneur who’s “thing” has slowed down?-Contemplated quitting didn’t you?-Maybe skipped a few meals waiting for another door to open huh?-I used to do that too…I was stupid.-See, I took a slow down as a sign I failed at what I was doing…-Now, when a slow down hits…I knock on doors…-To who you might ask?-To any of my fellow entrepreneur friends who may need an extra hand until mine picks back up-I help them, they help me keep the lights on, pay the bills and feed the kids-Too many of us are prideful-Often say we’ll do whatever...

I’m Proud of you.   Ever thought about all the things that should’ve destroyed you and didn’t?   Have you ever wished that the younger you and the you now could sit and have a conversation?   Take a minute and think; what do you think that conversation would be like?   Today, that conversation happened in my head as I was leaving a job.   And to be quite honest, I got a little emotional.   Because the conversation started out with a simple, “I’m proud of you”.   I’m proud that you never gave up.   I’m proud...

It’s inevitable…-You know one thing I’ve learned in my nearly 49 years of life?-If you somehow lose your way from a path your life was on, keep going…-Even when it looks bleak and you can’t see the road ahead, keep going-I can’t tell you how many times my path has changed on me and left me confused-I’m no different than anybody reading this; I just speak about it openly and share it with anyone who’ll listen-If you’re like me, you’ve taken time to reflect on your life and all the things you “thought” were going to happen that didn’t -Maybe...

You are to blame.If you fail to continue learning in life.If you fail to push yourself everyday.If you quit before even trying.If you assume because it’s never been done by you, it CAN’T be done by you.If you still hold onto who you were in your past.If you allow what others perceive you to be affect who you really are.If your kids learn nothing because you were taught nothing.If the chain that linked itself to your hitch, links itself to your children as well.If you fall and don’t get back up.If you never become you at its full potential like...